Make peace with your problem by just letting it sit where it is and in doing so, the solution must show up.
But if you keep examining the problem, talking about the problem, measuring the problem, speaking of the problem - you hold yourself in defiance to the solution that would be there if you weren't doing that. A-H
If you have a problem, if things are pressing down on you and you don't see any way out of it, you need to just leave it alone to work itself out.
This is what is meant by "let go and let God." You don't have the answer, that is obvious because you are examining, talking, measuring etc. trying to figure out a solution. And now, all that is happening is that you are summoning more problems to examine and measure, because this is your main focus.
This society expects you to be pro-active in your own life, by jumping right in and finding solutions at any cost. If the solution doesn't immediately present itself, then leaving it alone IS the solution.
Life isn't meant to be a struggle, life flows. If you feel that you have to fight for everything, that nothing comes easily to you, you are simply creating more struggle. Try to turn that thinking around - Everything comes easily to me.
"Those who flow as life flows know they need no other force" Lao Tsu
"Life flows on within you and without you" George Harrison