Tuesday, 29 November 2016

#564


THERE COMES
A TIME WHEN YOU
HAVE TO STOP
CROSSING OCEANS
FOR PEOPLE WHO
WON'T EVEN JUMP
A PUDDLE FOR
YOU.


You know what I mean by this.... why are you doing everything for everyone... who is doing for you?

The sad part is, not even YOU are doing for YOU. It is always nice to be kind and considerate, it's nice to help others and it makes you feel good to be the one to be doing this, but you need to factor yourself into the equation. You cannot habitually be the one giving without ever being on the receiving end. Take a look at the situation..... is it totally one-sided? Are you jumping through hoops for someone that doesn't fit you into their schedule? Is it consistently about them, and never about you? Are you wondering how things got so far out of hand and why you are in this situation?  

Does this relationship have absolutely NOTHING to do with you? 
Is it all about them?

This is a case of trying too hard, and that IS the problem. Relationships are worth fighting for, but you can't be the only one fighting. So if you are trying to salvage a relationship, if you are not getting back what you are giving out; take the time to tune into yourself and find out why you are allowing yourself to be disrespected. Check your self-esteem levels, they may be a little low. Don't ever compromise yourself for any relationship, you deserve only the very best and all you have to do is realize that.