Tuesday, 10 February 2015


"If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there." Lewis Carroll
Do you feel like you have lost your direction? Maybe just blowing in the wind? A lost soul, with no fixed address? If this is so,  and you can't think of what to do or where to go next, you are at a crossroads. How can you get anywhere when you haven't got a clue where you want to go?
Sometimes life gets so overwhelming that you become paralyzed with anxiety and don't know which way to turn.  Or it may simply be that you are attempting to 'go with the flow' and it just looks like you have no direction. Either way, you don't have to make an instant decision on the big stuff, mull it over for awhile, until the anxiety is lessened, and the resolution will come to you. Just tackle the small things in the meanwhile.
The point of this quote is that with no direction whatsoever, any road you take will take you somewhere. So if you haven't been going anywhere, at least this will get you moving.
“I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going. And I have trained myself to love it. Because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight, that we force our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight. And as we fly, we still may not know where we are going to. But the miracle is in the unfolding of the wings. You may not know where you're going, but you know that so long as you spread your wings, the winds will carry you.”  C. Joybell

Don't live in the future, scheduling and planning your life away. Don't, either live in the past lamenting all the sad and depressing scenarios that took place. Live in the here and now, be present. Enjoy every moment and take one step at a time. When the time is right, you will know where you want to go and how to get there. Have a little faith, it will all work out.