Monday, 22 February 2016


Let them judge you
let them misunderstand you
Let them gossip about you
Their opinions aren't your problem
You stay kind, committed to love,
and free in your authenticity.
No matter what they do or say
don't you dare doubt your worth
or the beauty of your truth.
Just keep on shining like you do.

I repeat, once again ... what other people think about you is none of your business. This simple statement is very important, something that needs to be deeply implanted in your mind. People will think whatever they want, they will respond to you as their mindset dictates. You cannot spend your life worrying about them and what they are saying. It is merely their opinion, not truth.

Simply being a human being, you will be misunderstood. Everyone is different and we all have diverse points of view depending on our life experiences. We have been socialized by a culture that sets the norms for what is acceptable. So anyone that ventured outside the parameters of the tolerable standard was suspect, misunderstood, judged and a victim of gossip.

This type of negative behaviour says more about the people doing it, than it does about you. Don't let this kind of talk define you, you are more than someone's opinion. You need to be yourself, be authentic, you are the only one that can. No one is more you, than you. You are the one you have been waiting for, you are your life partner. BE the one and only you.

Just be who you want to be,
Not what others want to see.