Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. You don't have to like it....it's just easier if you do.
Life is simple, it was never meant to be a struggle. Everyone has exactly the life they want. We create the life ourselves. We won't let things alone, we are in there planning, setting goals, pushing ourselves, taking on too much; when all that is required is to allow the universe to do it's job. We need to get out of our own way. Let things be as they are instead of how you want them to be.
Things will happen as they happen, your only job is to accept what is and move forward. No one is out to get you, no matter how it feels, that's not how it works. Nothing is happening to you, you have chosen your path and included this stumbling block, in order to grow. It's all about your reaction to the bad times and/or the good times. You can make them whatever you want them to be. Your reaction is your choice.
Everything happens at exactly the right moment. So there is no need for fussing and fretting, my friend, when the time is right everything else will be too. You never need to look back and wish you had done something sooner or worry about how much time you wasted, because all things happened as they were meant to.
You don't have to like it, you only need to accept it. It's easier if you do... you don't need to continue to challenge anything. It will all work out in the end, if it hasn't worked out, it's not the end. Trust the process.