"There are two basic motivating forces: FEAR and LOVE. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement,+ acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life." John Lennon
Embrace life, said John Lennon. Live life fully, accept things as they are, do not fight the current, flow with the stream. This requires trust in the universe to deliver what you need.
While you are out there trying to fix the situation, desperately jumping through hoops to end the strife and struggle; fighting what is... you will continue to get what you give out. You will get more struggle and strife, digging yourself a hole. You get what you give. If fear is running your show, you are not sending out positive, loving, accepting messages to the universe, resulting in a bigger hole. Most fears are not real. You must, of course, be aware of danger, but fear is simply manifested by change or some uncertainty in your life... the 'what ifs'.
F.E.A.R. False Evidence Appears Real
You will always get what you need, no necessarily what you want; and that may be the best thing that ever happened to you.
If you are coming from a place of love and acceptance, your life will flow more easily. Give love, receive love. First and foremost.... love yourself and it will naturally follow that you will love every living thing. Embrace your life.