You can't calm the storm....
This is just a gentle reminder that you can't control everything.
The only person you can control is you. If your world is spinning off it's axis, and the sky appears to be falling, you can't stop it. There is nothing you can do, it will pass when it is time. The trick is to keep yourself in check until it does.
After the storm is calm.
In order for you to remain calm while all the world is falling to pieces around you, you must believe in yourself. Have faith in YOU and trust the universe.
When something is disrupting your world, and you need an answer, you will likely get a sensation in your 'gut.' That is your decision, it will tell you what you need to know and what you need to do. Make a conscious choice to listen to your inner voice, it is your intuition and will bring you the answer you need. You know what to do, you don't need to follow anyone else's direction. Place yourself directly in the eye of the storm, where all is calm, and wait it out.
"There are some things you learn best in calm and some in storms"
The storm is here to teach you something. There is a reason for and it will all become clear when the storm passes.
If you believe in yourself, it won't matter what is going on around you, you will be OK. That is the point you want to reach, the realization that all is well, you can handle anything. The storm will pass.