Tuesday, 3 November 2015


At some point, you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. It's not like you're giving up, and it's not like you shouldn't try. It's just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours will eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.

You can't always get what you want, or what you think you want. No matter how hard you try, and try, and try things just don't work out. This time, you thought you had it right, actually you never had it wrong. You are in this position because you had something to learn. Don't be too hard on yourself, this is life. 

We put ourselves in different positions with people throughout our lives so that we understand distinct personalities and situations. This will result in us learning how to deal with them and with life in general. If we are in the same situation again and again, we are not getting it. We will continue repeating the lesson until we understand what it is we are here to learn. 

Each time a relationship goes sour, it is wise to take an honest evaluation of your part in it; not to make you feel bad, simply for clarity. Were you the only one putting any effort into the relationship? Were you trying too hard? You need to take care of YOU. If a person wants to be with you, they will make sure that they are. If they do not, you can't force it. 

People are who they are, you can't change them. They are who they are, not who you want them to be. You also need to be who you are, and not allow anyone to try and change you. 

Our time here on earth is like a schoolroom, we all have a lot to learn and everyone is a teacher.