Monday, 7 March 2016


Step 1: 
Let people do what they need to do to make them happy, mind your own business and do what you need to do to make you happy.
The End.

The main responsibility you have in this life is your happiness. Do what you want to do, live how you want to live, love who you want to love. Be happy. That is your raison d'etre. 

You are not here to interfere in other lives, you cannot make someone else happy, that has to come from them. They have to do what they have to do, follow their own path and make their own decisions concerning happiness. You can support them in their endeavours, be there for them, love them, but no one else can make their life complete but them. 

You need to learn to butt out and allow people to grow on their own. If you are interfering in someone's life, you are impeding that growth. Although your intention is to help, you are not. It is none of your business how someone else handles the complications in their existence. Each person needs and deserves the opportunity to direct their life however they see fit. 

NO, it does not matter that you could do it better, or that you are older, or wiser or whatever excuse you use. It is not your life, it does not belong to you. You do your life and they will do theirs. If they mess it up, it is a much-needed lesson for them, and they will recover. If they continue to mess up - remember the messing up is only your opinion, it is obviously what they need to do, or they wouldn't be doing it. 

Do your best, tend to your own affairs and do what you need to do to make YOU happy.