Does it seem like a fantasy to have the life you dream of, the life you want? Are you caught up in the daily doldrums? Does there seem to be any way that you could possibly have THAT life?

Everyone gets caught up in the daily grind... bills, mortgages, kids, schools, living your life, keeping up. There is nothing you can do about it, it's just the way it is....right? 

You have to keep up with all the responsibilities and obligations of the aforementioned life, don't you? Of course you have responsibilities, but how much of what you are doing is something you only feel you HAVE to do? 

How much is another's responsibility? What are you doing that another could or should be doing for themselves? 

Many times we get caught up; right in the middle of someone else's business. We are 'taking care' of someone, doing things that they need to take care of for themselves. We need to back off and let them handle it. They have their journey and we have ours. 

If the life you dream of is forsaken for someone else's life... there is a problem. You are not putting yourself first. You are not taking care of YOU. 

Taking over some other life is not getting you any brownie points, in fact, it's only stealing your time and bank account... merely an obligation that you have taken on.  You are responsible only for your life and your happiness. We all want to do nice things for others, and that's great, but the life you dream of and your happiness are waiting for YOU. Don't put it off, live for today. You can create any life you want. 

Take a look at the life you are now living and make an honest evaluation about the time allotted for you. I am sure you can find time to put your dream into motion and capture the happiness that you so deserve.