#578

There is nothing for you to go back and live over, or fix, or feel regret about now. 

Every part of your life has unfolded just right. Abraham

Everything that you have gone through, all the trials and tribulations have made you who you are today. Your history has paved your way to this moment in time. If you are not happy where you are today, you can amend your attitude and/or alter your perspective. There is no way to change the history, but you can make a decision to not go with it, let it harm you or react to it. 

You cannot change anything that has already happened, therefore there is no point in continuing with the same reaction that you know is not going to work. Being engulfed with remorse or pain is getting you nowhere. Don't give your power away, use what you've experienced to grow.

You take the lessons of yesterday and use them for a better today.

All of the experiences you have had, good or bad, were meant to be. They were lessons, showing you the way. No one is 'out to get you', you are not going to be punished, so no matter what you have done to get to where you are....it happened as it was meant to happen. 

You did what you did because it was intended to be that way and there was something to learn in the doing... OR ELSE YOU WOULD NOT HAVE DONE IT.

Everything is perfect the way it is, this is what you came here to do. Use all your past experiences for the lessons, and then let them go.... you can't change them anyway, so don't let them change you. You are a stronger version of yourself than you would be without the lessons.