#164

They do not know YOU!

Do you find that there are some people that want to tell you what to do, and how to do it? They do not, and never will know what is best for you, what you need to do and what is the best thing for you to do in any given circumstance. 

The thing is... even if someone can 'see' that you are going down what they consider to be the wrong path, there is no way one adult should be telling another what to do. If you are adult the decision is yours. 

If you asked someone for their advice on what to do, then you may have to suffer through a long list of the pros and cons of your desire. This is the downfall of asking in the first place... it is your decision. You never have to defend your choices, they are yours.

If you are adamant about something that all those around you feel is detrimental, remember this is only their opinion. It is not fact. Usually when someone is determined that you will be hurt by trying something, it is because it is a fear of theirs. They are frightened of the entire prospect of what you propose, and think they are trying to save you from yourself. But, frankly, it is none of their business. You have your path to follow and they have theirs.

If you have a desire to do something, it is entirely up to you, as are the consequences of your actions. If it turns out to be a ghastly mistake, so be it, you need to accept that and carry on. You are responsible for your actions and decisions, and if you believe in yourself, against all odds, then do it. You will never know what you are capable of if you allow others to bully you, or make your decisions for you. 

Only you can possibly know what you can accomplish, the depth of your desire, determination and drive. Do ever be afraid to take a chance on YOU.