#546
We would like you to release the word 'achieve' or 'earn' from your vocabulary and from your understanding, altogether; and we would like you to replace those words with the word 'allow'. You're wanting to allow your Well-being, not achieve it. It's not something that you need to earn. All you have to do is decide what it is you would like to experience, and then allow it in order to achieve it. It isn't something you have to struggle for or try for. You are worthy beings. You are deserving of this Well-being. Abraham

You are perfect for your life, that's why you have it. You are loved more than you know, and you don't have to earn that love, it is unconditionally yours. You are on your journey, and it is impossible to mess up, whatever has happened was supposed to happen, everything is as it is meant to be. 

You deserve all the Universe has to give, which is everything. You don't have to do anything to ensure that the Universe is on your side and willing to help you. You only have to decide what you want and then allow it. 

Life was never meant to be a struggle, but we certainly have made it one, haven't we? We keep pounding on closed doors, trying harder, fighting the good fight and digging the hole deeper each day. It doesn't work, more struggle does not bring you peace or well-being. Just go with the flow and allow life to come to you. 

You are a worthy being, you deserve it all. You don't have to keep trying to prove that you are worthy. YOU CLEARLY ARE! 

#545

Do you often find yourself in a quandary about some problem that actually is not directly concerning you? Are you mixed up in someone else's life?

Your adult son has decided  to quit his job and join a band. You tell him that you don't feel that this is a good idea.

Someone at work said something to a fellow employee and you are outraged. You take it upon yourself to try and straighten it out. 

You think that your daughter's boyfriend is far from marriage material. You tell your daughter that she could do better.

These are 3 examples of being is someone else's business.  Once a person has reached adulthood, what they do is their business. They are on their own path, they need to make their own "mistakes". Even if they are your children, your time is up... you have done all you can, they need to be treated as adults now, not controlled, like children. Even if you think that you know what needs to be done, or what would be best for them; it is none of your business.

"If a train doesn't stop at your station, then it's not your train." 

Just think how much more enjoyable life would be without having to worry about, or control what everyone else is doing. You only have to worry about yourself and what you are doing. Your business is to make yourself happy, period. If you are happy, people will want to be around you. One way to be happier is to let go of control....control is an illusion; you never really have control over any situation or any person. Let go and live YOUR own life. 

I am certainly not saying that you shouldn't be considerate and supportive of others, but that is where it needs to end. Do not jump in the middle of someone else's life.... live your own. 

#544

We want you to know that the Universe never gives up on you. That the Universe never says 'well, never mind on her, she hasn't been letting it in, it's not likely that she'll ever let it in. The Universe continues to orchestrate perfect situations and events. Abraham-Hicks

The Universe is always working in your favour, timing everything for your benefit. The synchronicity of various events in your life must make it blatantly obvious that someone besides yourself is tending to the details. 

Keep your focus on how you want to feel and let the Universe fill in the details. 

You can't get it wrong, there are no mistakes. You are loved, just as you are, for being you.  You are the Universe expressing itself as a human for a time, and therefore, perfect. There is no reason for anyone to worry for one minute about judgment, repentance, inferiority, or deficiency, from anyone other than themselves (and that needs to stop, also).  We are all one, all equal, no one is less worthy than anyone else.

You are the voice of your soul. What do you want? What is missing from your life? Simply ask for whatever you want, and it's on its way.

"And when you want something, all the Universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." Paulo Coelho

#543

No matter what's happening
CHOOSE Happy.

Don't focus on what's Wrong. 
Find something Positive in your
LIFE.

Joel Osteen

You can actually change your life with your thoughts. 

You are in charge and you have the ability to have a positive experience every second of every day if that is what you want. You can also have ANYTHING YOU WANT just by focusing your thoughts in that direction. Your main attainment in this lifetime is just to be happy. You are not here to work harder or smarter, you are here to have fun, to play and love and laugh. 

BE HAPPY!

"You were given life, it is your duty (and also your entitlement as a human being) to find something beautiful within life, no matter how slight."  Elizabeth Gilbert

Once you have found something beautiful in life, focus on it, let the feeling permeate your entire being, and you'll never want to let it go.  Don't let it go, instead, let go of everything that makes you sad.

Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections. Unknown

HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE, NOT A RESULT.

#542

Just keep telling yourself,

I'm in charge here.

I'm in charge of my life.

I'm in charge of what comes.

I'm in charge of how I feel.

Abraham

This is your show, you are the main character, the director, and the producer. The cast and crew are simply those you have chosen to do your life with you. Everyone in your show is there to assist and/or support you in your quest. 

We each wrote our own script for this lifetime on earth, we chose all of the people that have come or will come into our lives. Each of them came to us with a purpose, to aid us on our journey and teach us a relevant lesson. So, your parents, friends, lovers, enemies and even your children are chosen by you and each will have something to teach you. It is all orchestrated for your growth, and you, in turn, are doing your part for these people and others, as well. 

Don't allow anyone else to control your life, they have their own life to control and that's enough.

We can make our life a comedy or a tragedy, it's up to each one of us. YOU ARE IN CHARGE of everything to do with your own life. Therefore, if you feel that your life is a tragedy, you have 'ordered' that by your attitude. You may need an attitude adjustment to start looking at life differently. Make it easier on yourself.

Life was never meant to be a struggle. 

#541

Stop asking others to be the change that you need in order to feel better.

That is the freedom that you are looking for.

Abraham-Hicks

It will not be the next teacher, the next lover or the new baby that will fix what ails you. Sometimes we think that the 'new' or the 'next', will be the ONE that will be the change we need to feel better. Then, everything will fall into place and we will feel good. 

We tend to look to someone else when the problems of the world overwhelm us. We want them to make us feel better, to tell us that everything will be okay, and actually just tell us what to do. This can often result in bitterness down the road  because it results in a sense of ownership for your life.

You don't need anyone to make you feel better, that comes from you. 

No one can fill you up, you need to figure out what will make you happy and then nobody's opinion will matter to you. ....this is freedom. You are in charge of your own life and it's never too late to be who you are, who you were always meant to be. 

The best way to fill yourself up is to do something for someone else. Make something good happen, you can't help but feel good about yourself.

"Be the change you want to see in the world" Mahatma Gandhi

#540

"You alone are the judge of your worth and your goal is to discover infinite worth in yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks."

Deepak Chopra

We all have 'stuff' to overcome, everyone has their own 'dragons' to slay and 'armies' to defeat. Often when engaged in our battles, we can accumulate  feelings of unworthiness,  and this, then, becomes the battle. Many of life's experiences, as well as the people you surround yourself with, can contribute to these feelings. Eventually, you may question your own worth.

Your worth never changes. Whether you are 'sitting on top of the world', or 'down in the dumps', you are always valuable. You may not feel the same, but this doesn't change the fact. 

If you have a $100.00 bill, it is worth - $100.00. If you take that same bill and crumple it up and throw it to the ground, step on it, and grind it into the dirt, it is still worth $100.00 The same is true for you, if you have been thrown down, stepped on and feel crumpled and dirty, you still have the same value. You are of infinite worth.

Your worth does not change according to what happens to you.

Don't worry about what anyone else says, that is their issue. The mere fact that you are here on earth proves that you are valuable. You have a mission and only YOU can complete it. You are important, remember that. You know who you are.

"Above all else, to thine own self be true." Shakespeare