#145

Think you can't change the world? Too late you already have...

I think most people find it hard to believe that they are as important as they are to others, and the whole scheme of things. 

You have a position here on earth, you were anticipated at birth and will change more lives than you can imagine, simply by being yourself. You job is to be YOU! That's it. You make a difference, every where you go and in everything you do. You will be an inspiration to some and a warning to others, but a difference you will make. Some people will never be the same because they came in contact with you

Many will be skeptical concerning people noticing their existence, and still others hope that no one will. But you do have an effect; it may be the way you choose to dress, do your hair, the way you talk, or simply that you smiled at them. It may be that random act of kindness, you so graciously kept to yourself, or the way you were impatient with the clerk at the store. Whatever you may have done or said, you were noticed and it had a lasting effect on someone. We all hope it is our positive attributes that are noticed, but either way, the fact is that you do affect change.

"A life is not important except in the impact it has on other lives." 

Jackie Robinson

“You are here to make a difference, to either improve the world or worsen it. And whether or not you consciously choose to, you will accomplish one or the other.”  Richelle E. Goodrich

#144

Ego.... again!

Our attachment to the ego is the cause of many of the problems in our lives. The insatiable need to be right over being happy will drain your life of joy. The ego's inclination for superiority, is often running the show.

When being dictated by our ego, we are judgmental  of others. This means we are fear driven. We are trying to control the situation or the person. We can't be kind and generous when we allow the ego to dictate our thoughts and emotions. 

"The ego is not who you really are. The ego is your self-image; it is your social mask, it is the role you are playing. Your social mask thrives on approval. It wants control, and it is sustained by power, because it lives in fear." 

As Deepak Chopra states here "the ego is not who you really are", it is your mask, it's who you'd like to be if you weren't so scared. It is a survival tactic in most cases, a means of continuing your day to day life. It helps you to function in the world. It is protection from being hurt. If you use your ego to be a large  tough guy, you can beat whatever is after you; and your greatest fear is that as yourself you cannot. But anything that is fear driven is going to cause you more complications in the long run.

Given a choice, I'm sure we would prefer to be compassionate to ourselves, as well as others. Pay attention to what your mind (ego) is saying, and decide whether it serves you as the person you prefer to be. You don't have to believe everything you think. You do have a choice about how you act and what you say. It's up to you.

#143

Do not leave your longings unattended.....

Where did your longings go, what happened to your dreams? What have you given up to continue in the life you are leading? Was there something you always wanted to do that has been put on hold permanently? 

Do you know that self denial of your longings can lead to depression, anger, and illness?  I would say you just need to follow your dreams, for your own health. But I  understand that life steps in and responsibilities add up, and you just can't go running off into the Himalayas for a hike. If this is your dream, there is always a way, it may not be possible today, but it can be done. If this is what you really want to do, you can certainly attain it. People seem to give up far too easily on their dreams and self fulfillment. It's a matter of priorities BUT I am not saying your dream of hiking is more important than your children, or anything of the sort; I am just.... don't ever forget that you and your longings are important as well.

"It's your thing, do what you want to do." The Isley Brothers

When someone asks you what you always wanted to do, or what is your fondest desire; what is your answer? 
If there is some way that you can actually do it, then do it... 

In the meantime start planning it, set it up on a mood board or something where you can actually see it.. Picture yourself doing it, and eventually you will manifest exactly what you wanted... where there is a will there's a way.

Do not leave your longings unattended

#142

LIFEISNOWHERE....

What did you see? What you see depends on how you look at it. Things are not always what they seem at first glance.

It's fascinating how we look at things, how we read signs etc. We see what we want to see, not always what is there. It depends on our mindset and what has taken place during our day. 

This is a great lesson not to jump to conclusions, not to judge a book by it's cover, to take time to really see what is being offered. To really listen, as well, because we don't necessarily hear what is being said either. Enter into each situation with an open and loving heart and not assume anything, ever.....

Don't allow your preconceived ideas about situations or people to over rule your good sense. If you are looking for something to complain about, or someone to blame or ridicule, you will most certainly find it. You will find exactly what you are looking for. With a mind set like this "life is no where," and that is exactly what you will see. 

The way we look at life determines our experiences. 

This gives a fantastic opportunity to make changes, and see life as a wonderful journey filled with happiness and love.

"Life is now here"

#141

ONE new perception....

All it takes is one new perception, one fresh thought, one act of surrender, one change of heart, or one leap of faith to change everything. 

One day you read something, watch something or talk to someone and you suddenly see things in a different way. That is the day that you begin to question your long standing beliefs. One question usually leads to another and you begin to see that you weren't seeing at all. You had been blindly travelling your path, secure in the knowledge that you knew what you were doing. Now that theory has gone down the tubes.

We should quit at 21 when we know everything, because as you age, you will notice that you really don't know anything at all.

Questioning the way you think is the beginning of getting some answers. This will lead to some awareness, and PRESTO! your life is changed.  All it takes it ONE thing to change EVERY thing.

We all have belief systems, installed throughout our lives, from various sources. We may actually be unaware that we are harbouring anything that may be stunting our growth. We will continue with these systems unless we are challenged or encouraged to take a look at them. One day,  someone says something that causes you to rethink the whole system... a new idea, a new way of looking at things. Sometimes that's all it takes. The awakening has begun. You will see things from a fresh new perspective. It is like being reborn; it's astonishing, refreshing, exciting and stimulating. You can't do better than that. 

#140

Do your thing...

We are so restricted by protocol, dogma, rules and regulations, that not too many go outside the lines too often. So doing your own thing might sound a little far fetched. But, really, you are the only one that can do it... you are the only you there is.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.

Oscar Wilde

Put yourself out there and do whatever you want or need to do. The naysayers spewing criticism for your choices, are just jealous that you are doing something they are afraid to do. Being yourself and doing your own thing can sometimes be frowned upon, but it is necessary for your well being. If you are the type of person that drives your own bus, then following the leader just doesn't suit. You were created to stand out.  

"You'll turn out ordinary if you're not careful" Ann Brashers

You need to do your own thing, make your own 'mistakes,' and celebrate your own triumphs. Don't ever be afraid of the 'failures' in your life, learn the value of situations that did not work out as planned. They are the greatest gifts of all. You will learn more from 'failure' than success. Take chances, go out on a limb, be a rebel, never compromise yourself for anyone and enjoy your life.

“Don't you ever let a soul in the world tell you that you can't be exactly who you are.”  

Lady Gaga

 

#139

You are loved...

That's really all you need to know. Everything else is incidental. 

What makes this statement even more profound is that you are loved just as you are, you don't have to do anything to earn it. You are loved, you have always been loved and always will be.....just as you are.

You are here for a purpose. There is a reason that you are here at this time, in this place, doing what you are doing. You are a piece of the puzzle and you fit, you have a place and a purpose. Your life is a journey and each step counts, not just the forward steps, but the backward slides, as well. Each step adds up to a life lived and lessons learned.

You receive this love from the source, you cannot do anything that will stop the flow-we are not human being on a spiritual journey, we are spiritual beings on a human journey. 

As we grow, we develop beliefs and that, too, is part of our purpose... to figure out what holds us back, learn, grow, and figure out that all we need, we already have. And then we share what we have acquired with others. We are all valuable in the scheme of things. 

"With our love, we could save the world." -George Harrison