Monday, 24 October 2016


Stop asking others to be the change that you need in order to feel better.

That is the freedom that you are looking for.


It will not be the next teacher, the next lover or the new baby that will fix what ails you. Sometimes we think that the 'new' or the 'next', will be the ONE that will be the change we need to feel better. Then, everything will fall into place and we will feel good. 

We tend to look to someone else when the problems of the world overwhelm us. We want them to make us feel better, to tell us that everything will be okay, and actually just tell us what to do. This can often result in bitterness down the road  because it results in a sense of ownership for your life.

You don't need anyone to make you feel better, that comes from you. 

No one can fill you up, you need to figure out what will make you happy and then nobody's opinion will matter to you. ....this is freedom. You are in charge of your own life and it's never too late to be who you are, who you were always meant to be. 

The best way to fill yourself up is to do something for someone else. Make something good happen, you can't help but feel good about yourself.

"Be the change you want to see in the world" Mahatma Gandhi