People may call what happens at midlife 'a crisis', but it's not. It's an unraveling, a time when you feel a desperate pull to live the life you want to live; not the one you're supposed to live. The unraveling is a time when you are challenged by the Universe to let go of who you think you are supposed to be and to embrace who you are. Brene Brown
To let go of who you think you are, who you are supposed to be AND embrace who you REALLY are.
This is the state that most of us have finally reached.... it's the time where we are able to be who we are meant to be. The time where we are letting go of all the expectations of others and self, all the restrictions that we put on ourselves that have held us back. We've reassessed and re-evaluated our belief systems and taken a deep look inside to discover exactly who we are and what we are meant to be doing.
Do you know what you are meant to be doing? There is only one thing you need to do. Find your way back to love. Once you have an understanding, an appreciation, and love for yourself, you will instinctively pass that love on to everything and everyone around you.
"There is no more reason, or less reason for us than there is for anything else. Except to ourselves, we are no more or no less special than any other aspect of the Universe." Bob Miller