'Breathe, my friend, you are not old, you are young, you are not a mess, you are normal.
Extraordinary, perhaps. In the blink of an eye, your life will change, and it will continue to change for decades to come.
Enjoy it. Embrace it.
Be grateful for the ride.
You are not old, you are young, and faith will get you everywhere. Just you wait.'
Take it easy on yourself, you are doing the best you can. You are not shirking your duties, or falling behind in any way. You are perfect, just as you are, doing what you do, for being you. There is nothing lacking, or left out, all is exactly as it is meant to be. There will be lean times, there will be plentiful times, and you are equipped to handle anything that comes your way.
Believe in yourself, there are reasons that you are here. There are no mistakes. You may not be aware of your purpose on this planet, but you are working on it, nonetheless. You are necessary, you are a piece of the puzzle in the Universal plan.
You are perfect exactly as you are. With all your 'flaws' and problems, there is no need to change anything. All you need is to change the thought that you need to change. You are as you are, and that is enough. You have lessons to learn and sometimes the lessons are concerning those 'flaws.' The problems will teach you what you need to learn. It is an intricate plan and you are here to fulfill your part in it.
Enjoy it. Embrace it. Be grateful for the ride.