If you keep blaming something or someone else for your problems, you will never learn why problems come your way. Kushandwizdom.tumblr
You all know the 'blamers'... nothing is ever their fault... it may be the kid's fault, the spouses, that guy at work, the government, parents, it really doesn't matter. Everyone else is responsible for their troubles. Everyone, that is, except them.
Problems or obstacles are sent your way for a reason, there is something you need to work on, something that you don't understand or refuse to look at. There is always a way to get your attention. It would be wise of you to be aware of the little nudges and signs that show up during your day. It is important to be mindful, as these little nudges are signals that something needs attention. You don't want to wait for a serious accident or illness to take notice.
Any problems you are experiencing originate with you, they cannot be blamed on outside forces, you have created them.
It may be your attitude, or your reaction to someone or something, but either way, it is the choices you make that result in the situation you find yourself in. You are 100% responsibility for your life, whether it is good or bad is up to you.
Nothing you do, nothing you say and nothing you think is anyone else's fault. It can't be, it came from you. No one except you can control any of those things. The onus is on you, you are responsible.